So, we had some drama the last few days

So, we had some drama the last few days. Without getting into details, we've parted company with our surgeon because of some misunderstandings that blew up into hurt feelings and pride issues.


In the meantime, we discovered a great resource in the Breast Center at the San Ramon Regional Medical Center. A lovely lady, Vanessa, was able to help Christina find an Oncologist and soothe her fears a bit.


We met our new Oncologist, Dr. Rishi Sawhney this morning, along with his Physician's Assistant, Stacey. We were quite impressed. They showed remarkable consideration for our emotional state, and displayed a sense of competency that reassured us that we were in good hands. It was fantastic to find out that Dr. Sawhney works closely with the Blood Conservation program and is comfortable in working with Jehovah's Witnesses.


Dr. Sawhney explained that though the tumor removed was fairly small, the cancer is considered aggressive, and that additional surgery would very likely be needed. He is particularly concerned to learn if Christina have the "cancer genes" and what hormone receptors are present in the cancer cells. This will help us determine how aggressive to treat the cancer.


The "cancer genes", BRCA1 and BRCA2, is detected through a blood test. It is not often prescribed, as it's somewhat rare and is quite expensive. We asked the phlebotomist how much the test costs, and she told us $4,000! Fortunately, our insurance has authorized this test and will pay the total cost. The hormone receptors will be determined by the complete pathology report on the tumor that was removed; we should have that information within the next few days (early next week).


Dr. Sawhney recommended a Oncological Surgeon (replacing Dr. Gardiner), who we will meet this coming Thursday (10/7). He has also suggested that we find another Oncologist who can provide a second opinion, so I'm hoping to contact another doctor early next week.


It's been a long few days; the reality of the diagnosis is starting to sink in. We're feeling some heavy emotional swings, fighting to remain calm and hopeful even as we deal with life-altering choices. On top of all of that, we have to consider moving our planned vacation to a later time; Christina and I had planned to go to Vegas the first week in November, but it sounds like she will  have her surgery by then. I guess we'll get to see how easy it is to refund United airlines tickets... 


On the positive side, our friends have rallied around us wonderfully; many have expressed concern and offered help. It is truly amazing to see what God's people can do, and we thank Jehovah for his help in these trying times.